Sunday, August 4, 2013

Be a Blessing: Be Polite & Use Manners

Good Beautiful Morning/afternoon/evening to everyone :-)Today I am focusing on manners... it seems to be a forgotten mannerism in the world today.. What as shame :-(  Always when your out and about   say 'please'   'thank you'   teach your children to  say these  from babies up  so  when they reach adulthood.. it will be natural for them to treat others with   this step of respect. When you go into a  store and  happen upon a clerk who purely seems like  being there is the last place they wish to be.. smile at them.. if they  ring up your order and say nothing to you... still smile and tell them 'thank you have a nice day'  I have done this and trust me  it brings a smile to their lips and they more often than not reciprocate with ' you too' Let us be a blessing this day and always.. bring  back   being polite and using manners... especially on those who arent showing us any respect.. one by one  each small step... we can help this world to change and be more positive again. God bless you all... Have a truly fantastic, lovely day. Hugs Loves and Blessings , Barb Gadway <3

Colossians Chapter 4


Thursday, August 1, 2013

Be a Blessing.... Hugs Loves and Blessings.... Have an awesome weekend

Bright Blessings! May your day /afternoon/evening be filled with lots of sunshine today and always.My autistic son's birthday is   soon he turns the ripe old age of 12.... so today I will  be posting  some fave quotes and pictures to bless you with. May  something I post  or I have posted   blessed your heart  in some way... I aim to bless you not distress you <3  I will be taking a break from   the computer and posting/ blogging  over the weekend  and will post/blog again   on Monday or Tuesday.  Feel free to re-read  any/all my previous blogs :-)  God bless you all and I wish each of you a wonderful happy blessed weekend <3  God bless you, Barb Gadway  Hugs  Loves and Blessings <3

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.  – Groucho Marx

The way to happiness:  Keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry.  Live simply, expect little, give much.  Fill your life with love.  Scatter sunshine.  Forget self, think of others.  Do as you would be done by.  Try this for a week and you will be surprised – H. C. Mattern

Start each day by affirming peaceful, contented, and happy attitudes and your days will tend to be pleasant and successful. Such attitudes are active and definite factors in creating satisfactory conditions. Watch your manner of speech then if you wish to develop a peaceful state of mind. – Norman Vincent Peale

Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.  – Brian Tracy

Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND    <3 



Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Be a Blessing : Don't Wonder How the World Will Change... Be The Change

Greetings! May your day/afternoon/evening be going wonderfully. I was  searching  by google an inspiring message to blog today  and came across  this gem. I hope it blesses each and everyone of you in some way and helps you to know  one way  you can bless  a neighbor/family member/c0-worker or even a stranger today while out an about. Hugs Loves and blessings  today and everyday. Today and everyday Be a Blessing instead of wondering how the world is going to change... Be The Change. XOXO God bless, Barb Gadway


Be a Blessing to Others

by shiela on 07/04/13 at 3:20 pm
http://thesouljah.com/be-a-blessing-to-others

Every day when we pray, we ask for something good to happen to our lives. We seek refuge and hope that someone will come to help lighten our burdens each day. Sometimes too we look around and see people suffering around us. We hope that someone who can help them would do something and make them less miserable. The truth is, the world can be a better place if everyone spoke less about how much the world needs to change for the better but instead did something about it.
No Need for Superpowers
We all say, “I wish I had superpowers; then I could change the world.”  But it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t need to be bionic to help. Let’s say the superpower idea in the movies is a metaphor for your talents. We are all given a certain special trait, skill, or talent that we are really good at. This trait, talent, or skill will only have a purpose if we use it wisely to help others around us.
No Money to Help
Another excuse for not being able to help others is the idea that you can only help if you have money. Helping doesn’t always mean a huge sum of a donation to some charity. Look around you.  There is always an opportunity to help others if you just lift your hands and reach out to do so.
One Act of Kindness at a Time
You may not be able to heal those who are sick or give scholarships to orphans, but there is always something you can do.  I believe we are given chances to help others if we only open our eyes to recognize them. Just like a scene in the movie Bruce Almighty, God said, “We all can help with one act of kindness at a time.” Little actions become a habit, and it is contagious. So help an old lady across the street or open a door for someone when you get the chance and see how that makes you feel.
The Power of a Smile
Would you believe that a simple smile could be a great help or blessing to someone who badly needs it at that very moment?  People have learned to disguise their emotions and pretend that everything is fine even when it’s not. Many people are lonely, but they are afraid to reach out to others because of the fear of rejection. Offer a ready smile to people you meet. Trust me; somehow you will make someone out there happy even if it’s just for  a little while.

The Gift of Time
The best blessing you can be to someone is to be a friend who gives time to someone in trouble. Giving some time to listen to someone’s story or simply being there as a shoulder to cry on makes a whole lot of difference in someone else’s life. Imagine if you were not there?  It feels good to know you’ve comforted someone in need.
The Blessing Is You
A blessing is not just money or any material thing that people wish for. The best blessing is you sharing yourself with the world. Remember never to pass up a chance to help someone in need. No matter how simple the task is, every little act of kindness counts. And when other people see how doing good works for you, they will do the same. Imagine if all the people in the world did little acts of kindness to others. The world would be a better place for sure. So don’t pass up the chance to be a blessing to others today.

1 John 3:17-
But whoever has the world's goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him?



Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Be a Blessing : Share Your Inner Child of Positive Thinking

Sometimes we don't realize the blessings we have until we no longer have them. Appreciate all the blessings in your life, take none for granted.  
Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening !  May today and everyday and every minute of your day be blessed. As the above quote says   appreciate all the blessings in your life and share  with others... when someone we love dearly is having a down day... share a blessing  with them... brighten their heart and their day ... tell them how much they mean to you. Treat every spectacle  and experience in the day as if you were still a toddler just experiencing lifes daily happenings  for the first time.   Share that same  enthusiasm with  someone else .. Turn their frown upside down  and yours too :-) 



Life is not about receiving at all times; it is a combination of being thankful for what you have as blessings and sharing those blessings with others who need a little fraction of what you have.Catherine Pulsifer, Moms Wisdom 

Be thankful for the small  daily happenings  that occur in your life daily  even the smallest   thing to make you smile might  bless someone else... share it with someone   who seems down.   Share your inner childs  enthusiasm    with a family member/ co-worker/ neighbor/etc.  Share your lovely smile...one act of kindness towards another  is one act of kindness in  making the world  more positive one step at a time. Release your inner child  ... treat   everything   like your first time noticing  the beauty and wonder of the butterfly... and share it ... share it.. share it... Be a Blessing  Share Your Inner Child of Positive Thinking <3   Hugs  Loves and Blessings ,  XOXO  God bless , Barb Gadway

Psalm 97:11-12 - "Light is shed upon the righteous and joy on the upright in heart. Rejoice in the LORD, you who are righteous, and praise his holy name."(NIV)

Monday, July 29, 2013

Be a Blessing Look at the World as a Garden and Sow Seeds of Sunshine

Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening  wherever you may be in this big beautiful glorious world. I hope and pray today is going just fantastically for you. Today and all days  I urge you to imagine this world  with so many beautiful colors  and designs  is your  own personal garden.. plant seeds of Sunshine  to each and every person you meet  to brighten their part of the garden  and encourage to plant their seeds of sunshine to others too. One by one the beautiful garden will beam  with smiles  and  positive thoughts and actions. You CAN make a difference in your life and others  by  sowing a seed of sunshine   in others with  your bright beautiful cheery smile. Go out there today and start   planting your  sunshine  garden.  You can make the little step  become   a worldwide event of sunshine. Begin the smile  garden chain today... be a Blessing... Look at the world as a garden and sow seeds of sunshine. :-) {{{{HUGS}}}} Loves and Blessings  XOXO God bless, Barb Gadway


Your smile is an inspiration to others!
A warm smile is the universal language of kindness."

~William Arthur Ward ~
Proverbs 15:30  A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones. (NIV)


Sunday, July 28, 2013

Be a Blessing Lighten the Burdens of Another and Your Burden will be Lifted too

No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.
― Charles Dickens

Bright Blessings dear ones ...  well today ... I woke up... and it seemed as if everything up on everything went wrong... Have you ever had one of those days .... and you almost feel like calling off work or just life itself...   get  yourself up... put on a smile..... give a short prayer to god to help you through the day... go out the door... and lighten someones burdens... and suddenly  something happens inside you too  while you are  lightening anothers burdens   so shall your burdens be lifted too and the backwards ... everything going wrong day.... suddenly  gets brighter  and starts  going the way its supposed too and even if its not   entirely going  well... atleast  you can tolerate it  better.   so today and everyday... Be a blessing  Lighten the  burden of another and you will also lighten yours too. :-) God bless you, Barb Gadway  XOXOX {{{{HUGS}}}}}

I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world.  ~Mother Teresa (Agnes Gonxha Bojar

Never worry about numbers.  Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you.  ~Mother Teresa

Deuteronomy 15:11 For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land




Saturday, July 27, 2013

Be a Blessing Thank You dears for over 1000 reads

Love   HUGS  and Blessings !!!!!!! You all are so wonderful  THANK YOU all so much for  all your  likes and reading my blogs. You have blessed me   with over 1000 reads. Words can not tell you how much your kindness and support for me   really truly means... this blog is dedicated to all you... you are the flowers  in my garden of friends. THANK YOU all so very very much!!!! I loves y'all bunches.... 



A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."
- Sent by Jasmine Fitzwilliam

"No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever." 
- Francois Mocuriac - Sent in by spiff

"Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannogt congeal in winter." 
- James Fenimore Cooper
I love you all dear dear friends   and I thank you humbly for your  gracious kindness in your awesome support  THANK YOU loves and hugs XOXOXOXO <3  God bless you all , Barb Gadway
John 15:13 NIV 
Greater Love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.