Got a problem with someone? Rather than hold it in, hold it up to God first. He can fight the fire of anger with the power of His forgiveness and love. One reason it is sometimes hard to admit we are angry when someone offends us is that we fear what others might think of us. But acknowledging anger and providing a time limit on resolving issues is essential in keeping harmonious relationships intact. “Speaking the truth in love” (Eph. 4:15) to the one who has offended us is vital, even if it means stepping outside our comfort zone. This scriptural approach to conflict resolution helps to clear the air and restore relationships. Explaining to the offending party what was hurtful and listening to the other person’s perspective lays the groundwork for healthy relationships. When we keep love in the picture, our goal becomes restoration.
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hat’s why the apostle Paul in Ephesians 4:26 said, “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” Providing a time limit on unresolved issues keeps anger in check. Instead of stewing over a wrong, which is a breeding ground for bitterness, we can ask God for help to “[speak] the truth in love” (Eph. 4:15).
Put out the fire of anger before it blazes out of control.
Heavenly Father, please guard us from uncontrolled anger. May the words that we speak bring honor to You. In Jesus Name I pray, Amen.
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Ephesians 4:26
Today I encourage you to go to God when someone hurts you and ask Him to help to give you the right words to say in love to the person or even to not say if it would be better for you to just overlook the incident this time. Be a Blessing use the best anger management available -FORGIVE and go to God!
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