Be a blessing Help Others Up But Let Them Grow too

Bright Blessing to all!!!!! Hope your day is beginning and going fantastically. :-) Todays Blessing lesson stems from a real life experience for me;....  We need to help people  everyday  but also if  what they need help with.. we have to   help them by  letting them handle the achievement themselves but be there  if they need our guidance.   How many of us  have had the experience   of enduring a sibling  that  didnt have to do what we had to do  because  they were favored by the parents... :-(  this is really sad and  not at all good for the  one that is the favorite ... how can that one  really in  just words grow up  if the parent  doesnt let them do so.   Sometimes the best kind of love and assistance is  loving them enough to let them do it... let them grow...  but if it ever gets to be too much for them... always be there  for them.  This can be a lesson to all of us who are parents  really... never favor  one over the other so much that the one can never do any wrong  and the  other seems never to do any right. As parents... we must be like our Father in heaven... we are always there  but    let   the child   try to do the task themself.  My personal reason for this  blog today is I am 1 of 2  children... I have a sibling 6 years older than me.... he was  coddled   so much he  does not know how to even use the stove to cook himself something.. As an adult... how can this help him and them especially if God forbid the parents pass on.... :-( Teach your children and others to love and treat others all the same be it siblings   or   their children... let them know when you see they arent  in a gentle manner of course. Out of respect  I take care of my parents and  now my sibling due to my parents  . Today I urge you and beg of you   Be a Blessing  by helping others to help themselves... help them grow ... strengthen their character ... their faith... just simply themselves  by letting them try ..........   And  let them know it may seem like your being tough in a way  but   its because you love them so much .. you want to see them  simply grow up enough that they fend for themselves in the real world  and other than relying on God to get them through the day ... they really don't have to rely on anyone else but themselves... THEY   CAN   DO    IT    :-)  woo hoo and let them know when they accomplish the task how proud you are of them.  God bless you all and much much love  MWAH...... <3  , Barb Gadway

Few things in the world are more powerful than a positive push. A smile. A world of optimism and hope. A 'you can do it' when things are tough.
Richard M. DeVos 

Philippians 2:4 - 

do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.